Relationship Problem Advice: Why Am I Not Good Enough?

Meg has been trying her entire life to live up to her parents’ expectations. 

It seems as though, no matter what she does, she’s just not good enough.

Growing up, she had decent grades but did not want to go to college. She began working full-time right out of high school. She’s now a manager at her local grocery store.

Meg throws herself into her work so she doesn’t have to deal with the people closest to her.

Her parents have never liked her taste in men. They have been very vocal about this with her. They do not “approve” of her live-in boyfriend of 8 months. They often tell her to break up with him. It isn’t as if she is still in high school. Meg is 27 years old.

They tell Meg she should be more like her older sister, Mandy. She’s a nurse, been married for 3 years to Jeff (a doctor), and they have a beautiful baby boy, Tristan who just turned 1.

When Meg was a child, her parents referred to her as “The Pudgy One.” Even though the baby fat fell away years ago, Meg still sees herself with chipmunk cheeks and short, stubby legs. Her family still calls her “Pudge.” Her boyfriend tries to reassure her just how beautiful she is, but she compares herself to Mandy, who was blessed with 3 extra inches of leg than she.

Do you know Meg’s pain? Are you in need of relationship problem advice? Do you feel you are just not good enough?

  • You have played the victim long enough!

It does not matter where you are in your life. You may be overweight, depressed, feeling unworthy, or guilty for not living up to others’ expectations. You do not have to feel this way any more.


  • Do not give others the power

It’s so easy to allow others to hurt you when you aren’t remembering where the power lies. It lies within you. No one has the power to hurt you any more. They cannot humiliate you any longer because you will not let what they say affect you from here on out. One of my favorite lines from the movie “Labyrinth” is near the end when Sarah realizes something so powerful. She says to the Goblin King, “You have no power over me!”

Gain your power back! Source loves you unconditionally and you are worthy of living your life exactly the way you want.


  • Make yourself happy because that’s all that really matters

Life is joy and fun and love and freedom. It is not about following the status quo. It is not about impressing others or living up to another’s standards.

As I write to you, my heart becomes warm and I smile, seeing you happy and free. I am so excited for you to begin living for yourself today!

If you are ready to take control of your life and realize you ARE good enough, then I encourage you to read my new book, Have A Love Affair… With Yourself: A Simple Guide For The Everyday Woman To Embrace Her Body, Mind and Spirit.

Much love, peace and blessings to you,

Kristin Cenderelli

“The Everyday Extraordinary Woman,” www.lovemyselffirst.com

Ambassador of Abundance and Prosperity, www.howtoliveonpurpose.com


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If The Law Of Attraction Is Real, Where Are My Millions?

Susan feels she’s been patient long enough. 

She’s watched the movie “The Secret” and everyday when she goes out to get the mail, she hopes for unexpected checks.

She’s stopped talking so negatively with coworkers and tells others that she will be quitting her job soon because she knows her millions are on their way.

Are you like Susan? Are you thinking, “If the Law of Attraction is real, and I can have, do or be anything I want, then why haven’t the dollars come yet?”

  • The Sun’ll Come Out Tomorrow

Although having money is necessary for you to do the things you like, take some time to focus on what money can’t buy. Watch the sunrise, inhale the fresh air, listen to your children laughing, play in the rain, bask in the sunlight.


The standard of success in life isn’t the things. It isn’t the money or the stuff — it is absolutely the amount of joy you feel.

— Abraham


  • Money is nothing more than Vibration

How do you view money? If you have negative feelings about money or you feel unworthy in the having of it, this will be your dominant vibration and the money cannot come to you.

When you learn that everything is vibration and that the key to getting all that you desire is by thinking more deliberately, you will begin to live a life you’ve only dreamed. The more that you are aligned with Source and living life to the fullest, the more money will flow in and out of your experience. No one is more worthy than you to live their dreams.


  • All of your power is now

If you have not yet attracted the money you are wanting, it’s not too late. In fact, you are in a better position now than ever before to begin manifesting your desires. Every time you see or experience things that upset you, you “launch rockets of desire” (Abraham-Hicks) which go out to the Universe. Source becomes the new and improved version of whatever you were focusing upon. If you can do your best to see yourself as Source sees you, by law, you will begin seeing evidence of your alignment: in your rendezvousing with like-minded individuals, opportunities, joyous encounters, etc.


  • Become the person you want to be.

Focus on what you want and believe it is on it’s way. Throughout your day, imagine it as if it’s already manifested in your life. Feel the feelings of having whatever you desire. Act as if you already are the person you’ve always wanted to be. Go out and make it a great day. Stay positive in the way you think to yourself and speak with others.

If you feel that a million dollars seems too hard to manifest, make it a more believable amount. It should feel reasonable to you. It IS possible to manifest the million, but it takes consistent focus and inspired action. First, align with the new, expanded “You” and then move in the direction of your desires. Once you see evidence that you are a Deliberate Creator, you will feel more confident in manifesting more.


  • Take it step-by-step

When you are feeling desperate for money, you are in a vibration that is no where near the vibration of a million dollars. When you get into a joyous state of expectancy, you will attract more opportunities and support into your life. Take inspired action and you will gradually become the person you’ve imagined yourself being. Take it logical step by logical step.

There’ll be times you are fully aligned and you attract amazing things into your life, and there’ll also be times you feel discouraged. Do not continue focusing on or analyzing the problem. Gradually work your way back into alignment.


  • Get happy.

Life is fun and full of adventure. Don’t lose sight of how precious it is! You did not come here to struggle. You are here to thrive, to have fun and to grow. Let your mistakes be your stepping-stones, let your successes make you smile and remember to think properly and listen for the call of Source. It is calling you toward your desires right now. Open yourself up for what is being brought to you.

If you would like to begin living the life you’ve always wanted and deserve, you must first know your worth. Take the FREE  21-Day “I AM a Gift to the World!” Challenge today.


Much Love, Peace and Blessings to you,

Kristin Cenderelli

“The Everyday Extraordinary Woman,” www.lovemyselffirst.com

Ambassador of Abundance and Prosperity, www.howtoliveonpurpose.com

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Life Purpose: How Can I Connect With My Inner Being?

Tracy is ready to make a change. 

Although she feels she is a good-hearted person, she hasn’t given much thought to spirituality.

She’s never had to face death, until now.

Her mother just passed away after battling breast cancer for 2 years.

Tracy cannot imagine her mother being gone forever. She knows there’s got to be more than this life.

“If there is something more than this physical life, how can I connect to it?”

Are you like Tracy? Do you want to know what your life purpose is and how to connect with your inner being?

  • Find what resonates with you

Life isn’t about living in fear or guilt. It’s all about aligning with your Inner Being. Follow your heart, your intuition. Allow the light of your inner being shine through you and live the way you want to live. Not for anyone else, but for yourself.

  • Go with the flow

Life is a never-ending stream of well-being. It  is only when you go against the current that you feel pain and resistance. Let go of the oars. Let life take you to where you want to go.

  • Be happy

Get happy anyway you can. Live your passion, be proud of who you are, and do not let anyone break your stride. Watch funny movies, play with your kids, be a kid again, go out with your girlfriends, get a massage, enroll in a class you’ve always wanted to take, get a makeover. Whatever you can do to get in that high vibration.

It is not your job to figure it all out. You are not here to get others to believe what you believe. Just live your life free of “have-to’s” and through the clarity of your example, people will be inspired.

  • Your Inner Being knows who you are and what you want

You do not have to continually request what you want to the Universe. Source knows what you are wanting. When you see things you do or do not like, you send out a vibration of what it is you are wanting. Source lines up with the new, improved you. The only thing you have to do is align with that.

  • Tune in

We all have the power to tune into our Inner Being. Once you are aligned with Source, you see Who You Really Are and begin living a life you’ve only dreamed of having and you become the person you’ve always wanted to be.

You cannot focus on where you are at this moment in time if you are wanting something different. You actually need to start living as if it has already come to fruition. If you are wanting money to flow to you, you cannot habitually feel negative emotions related to money. It is impossible for you to get where you want to be if you are continually focusing on where you are. The Universe does not know if what you are visualizing is only a thought or if it has already happened. Once you have this chronic way of thinking, you will continue to attract more and more of the things you are wanting. You become the Deliberate Creator you intended to be before you became physical.

If you are ready to become the Deliberate Creator you intended to be before you were born, then I encourage you to read my new book, Have A Love Affair… With Yourself: A Simple Guide For The Everyday Woman To Embrace Her Body, Mind and Spirit.

Much love, peace and blessings to you,

Kristin Cenderelli

“The Everyday Extraordinary Woman,” www.lovemyselffirst.com

Ambassador of Abundance and Prosperity, www.howtoliveonpurpose.com


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